Hey everyone!
I am in a bit of a predicament. I recently just got out of a 4 year very serious relationship and was completely heartbroken over it. I am now over it but still feel a bit hurt by it all. I have known a guy for a long time and we have been talking, texting and skyping quite often. We hit it off and I feel like we could really make ttthings work. However, the big catch: I
Am from Canada and so does he and just took a job in Pittsburgh. I accidentally confirmed a flight online to a different location and instead of canceling it, he convinced me To go see him in Pittsburgh. So I did.
But now that the trip is so close, I'm having doubts. Is seeing him a dead end? We can't make a relationship
Work being so far away. And lately, his effort in talking to me has dwindled a lot. I know he has had extra weird commitments in which he told me about in advance so I kind of understand but a text takes a few seconds. Anyways, I have a lot of guys after me and I know I'm a catch so am I being kind of desperate flying to see him especially when his interest has seemed to dwindled, a relationship even if the trip is awesome is impossible? I also don't want to chase someone who won't put in the extra effort for me. Not saying he wouldn't but his texts already have dwindled. Anyways, I'm a firm believer in taking chances in love so am I just over thinking a fun trip or is this not a good idea? The trip is only 5 days away
So any help is appreciated