I hope this is not to personal and inappropriate, but we had sex.
It's fine. Sex is an important part of a relationship.
I want to get to know here but I have no idea what to ask, without it sounding so wierd!
Why is it weird to ask her on a date? Or to come to your place for a movie?
Sweet Lemon:
I hooked up with a guy on the first night once and it turned into a 3 year relationship. Not everyone who jumps into the sack too quickly is out for a friend with benefits everyone has their reasons for doing crazy things sometimes.
Most girls that hookup don't want anything committed. That's just the trend, but there are exceptions. I have also slept with girls on the first date, but only after I got to know them well online. And I wanted a long-term relationship, but I was also testing their confidence on that first in-person date too.
I have now started accepting my feelings, that I'm falling for her.
You have an emotional high because she met your need for sex. Be careful here about your definition of love. Enjoy her company, but watch for red flags.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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