So I'm new to this site and I'm hoping it's as beneficial as my friend tells me it is.
I'm kind of confused on whether or not I'm making the right choice being with my boyfriend. We met on a sort of blind date. My friend set us up telling him that what he described he was looking for was me. We texted, talked on the phone a bit before we met, and when we did, it was surprisingly comfortable and easy going. We went out a few times on a double date with my friend and her boyfriend, and just two days ago he finally asked me out. It's only been a month since we've known each other.
There's just something that worries me about him. He's the type of guy I would never go up and introduce myself to. He's gorgeous to most girls and is approached a lot at bars. Due to the past, I'm the type of girl that is paranoid of getting cheated on. With him, I'm not so much. I feel like I should be because he has horribly wandering eyes, goes out a lot with the guys, and loves strip clubs. I would never tolerate that with any other bf.
I'm just not sure if I'm fooling myself or if my gut is telling me to run; if it's the fact that he's SO different than the other boyfriends I've wanted that draw me to him. I like him a lot. He's extremely giving, never lets me pay for anything unless I make a deal with him to let me pay, I've met his family already and am planning on going to Tenn. with him and some friends in the next few weeks. Wants a long term relationship and is ready to settle down, as am I.
I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing being with him.