is love meant to hurt this much

[taurus]

Hi guys and girls ,still wondering around in a daze thinking about this one girl i have met ,she is everything i have been looking for in a female .weve spent a little time together which is always fun ,kissed her a few times slept in same bed no sex though which is fine ,played tennis the other day i brought her some flowers cause thats the guy i am she said they were beautiful and she came up and kissed me on the lips ,played more tennis then stopped she mentioned flowers again and then another kiss ,am i being a wuss do i need to harden up and tell her i love her ,im pretty sure i do i cant stop thinking about her she makes me nervous when im around her please help before i go insane

[ripster]

general rule of thumb... never tell anyone you love them

no good can come of it

[Lineofsight]

Yea telling her that could scare her off, just date a few times then tell her you like her (if you do of course). At least wait a few weeks or a month (months?) before you condsider really loving her or telling her that.

[danica]

She's playing the game ... just gotta play it back ... If you tell her your feelings right away there likely won't be anything left "mysterious" to wonder about and want.

[lastwish]

If you do love her, you should tell her. A good girl likes honesty.

[zombie_loo89]

You don't have to tell her you love her, just say you have feelings.