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    Kids?

    Do you want kids and why?

    Or why not?

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    i don't especially have this NEED most women have to have kids. if my husband would like to have them then i would have them in a second. but on the other hand if he didn't want them, i would be just as happy. alot of people think its weird i don't really want kids. i think it's just me. maybe it will change one day, i dunno.

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    I want kids really bad..obviously i'm too young now..lol..but..when i get older i want kids. they're just too cute not to have

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    Quote Originally Posted by Steve2004
    I want kids really bad..obviously i'm too young now..lol..but..when i get older i want kids. they're just too cute not to have
    Oh I beg to differ honey. Kids=Not for a long time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sine-Nomine
    Oh I beg to differ honey. Kids=Not for a long time.

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    sh! s'why i said i'm too young, calm down

    but you can never be too sure whether you're gonna knock me up or not :/

    -snickers-

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    i have a kid already so my thing is do i want anymore i dont know i mean it would be totaly weird to have them so far apart dont you think? and i mean i know that with parenthood you are always be a parent but for the most part i am halfway done with my little one.
    i dont know maybe i cant say that my clock isnt ticking!

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    there is nothing wrong with having a distance between them. but personally if i do have kids i want to have them really close together. i was raise in a family where my mom had us one after another, literally. and although it may be a major headache for the parent to deal with that i think it does work out the best in the end. i'm not saying that siblings that are 10 years apart can't be close or anything, i'm just saying that for the most part kids are going to be closer if they are closer in age. but if you have a good close family kids at any age are going to be close. i would just prefer to have them close together myself. but i wouldn't knock anyone who did it any other way!

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    i got kids and do not want anymore actually if i think about if anyone wants to buy some kids....j/k.
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    well you can start a slave market princess.

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    I keep jumping back and forth. I have no idea what I want. I'm sure one day I will know but for now, I don't want them. I am almost 20. I don't need that kind of stress or responsibility right now in my life. When I am older, married, started my career and I am ready, I may change my mind. It all depends on my husband. If he doesn't want them, then we aren't having them. If he wants them, then I am sure I could manage popping out one or two for us to raise together. :-)

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    From a guy's perspective, from a house with too many kids and experiences with only-children, I've decided to have 3 with year and a half gaps in between (ideally)

    Putting that plan in action is another story
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fishy
    From a guy's perspective, from a house with too many kids and experiences with only-children, I've decided to have 3 with year and a half gaps in between (ideally)

    Putting that plan in action is another story
    that's how my family is. i dont have very close ties..with any of them...

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    my family is exactly like that and we are all very close. it's nice i think!

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    it would be awesome if i was close to all of them. But..uhm..they're all half siblings. Two are from only my dad. Two only from my mom. So they kinda group up..and i'm the only one that was made by both the parents i have now. So..i'm kinda the ugly duckling..or..the..uh..yea whatever

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    I dont want kids. I'm too selfish anyway.
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    pear. They asked me which one was different and
    did not belong. They taught me different was
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