Hello everyone,
I'm 22 years old and have a girlfriend of 20 years old, we're already together for over one and a half year.
My girlfriend always had a tendency to 'stand alone' and 'decide alone'.
But now she goes too far in my opinion.
She said:
When we have kids we're not gonna have sex anymore.
I went against it by saying that I don't ever want that to happen.
Then she said that it's her body so she decides.
Now I'm very angry about that, cause in my opinion you decide that together and if opinions don't match, find the middle way.
She's always been insecure and quicky jealous, if that'll happen I don't know how long we're gonna last as a couple.
Further more, lately she has been quite distant, not much kissing and pulling everything out her, for example if I say I love her she makes a joke of saying she doesn't love me, and I gotta force her a bit in some sort of way until she says it.
same with kissing, 10 kisses 1 day (not too much to ask right if young?) is a miracle currently. Gotta beg/force her for it.
('force' isn't ment in any violently physical way)
now here my questions to you guys:
do you agree or not that she alone can decide to not have sex anymore?
any advice? anything's appreciated.