Okay, so here's me. I'm 17, my friend and I have known each other for about 6-7 months now and she told me that she likes me, but I don't find her attractive. Her personality is fun but there are things about her I don't like. Am I a bad person for not liking her because of her appearance? I dunno, its hard to say. I'm always wondering if I like her or not, we spend a lot of time together. I've only had one other girlfriend before so this is all still fairly new.
I've had a real tough time finding a girlfriend, my first year at this highschool, also my senior year. People I know say that I'm good looking and wonder why I don't have a girlfriend. I'm a pretty shy person, and semi-nice, laid back. There are a few people that I like around school but either I have lost most of my contact with them or I just never talked to them much to get to know them.
I guess just what I'm wondering is am I wrong? I dunno, I just get so hung up on peoples looks that it seems like personalities don't matter. I want to find somone who's nice looking and has a good personality to match mine, but it just seems so hard. I know it's just highschool and it's not really going to matter because I'll be leaving in like 4 months anyway, but it's still hard for me.
So just looking for a little advice on my friend, and maybe some about meeting people and getting dates. Thanks for your inputs guys. I'm sure you hear this kinda story all the time .