i need some advice on this very confusing situation...so my girlfriend and i slowly grew apart over the past few months, and she started hanging out with this other guy. i asked her about it and she told me that she was just friends with him bc it was her moms friends son. she went to the sate fair with this guy and held his hang and has been texting him a lot. she says she loves me but doesnt know if shes happy. i have tried to hang out with her and sometimes we do and we have a lot of fun but latley it feels like she is just pushing me away and then pulling me back like one day she says she loves me then the next she doesnt? she says she isnt sure what she wants anymore. we continued to talk on and off but she would just lead me on and flirt with me, keeping me close yet pushing me away. she sent me a text saying that she knows we will eventually be together again, but right now this is how it has to be. but she also text me every morning and calls me everynight and if i dont repond or answer she will call two more times or if its a text she will wait an hour then send another one and then if no respons she will do it again but she wont answer my text or calls and if i do what she does she says im pushing her away? so the other day i told her that i cannot talk to her anymore about this because i am just lying to myself that she will come back. i still love her more than anything and she is on my mind all day every day i would do anything for her and she knows that. she says she just wants to be friends right now but i cant stand the thought of her being with someone else i cant be friends with her if she goes with another guy. what should i do? i am going crazy. all i do is still at home bc her friends are my friends to.