hi guys, this is my first time here so. a big hello to all of u out there (:
anyway, i have a problem with this girl i really like for 4 mths whom is in my class since the start of Pre U 1.
right from the start of this year, i already heard from her best fren she dint want to start a relationship becos of her 2 previous ex, which were pure assholes.
i told her my feelings 3 days ago. and she said she told me that she dint want to start a relationship and told me to stop waiting and wasting time for her. i asked her if i stood a chance, and she said that she didnt want to say no now, becos the ans may not be a no the nxt time round. although she dint say it loud, but i know she doesnt trust guys totally. she says she trust me with everything, but not jus with relationships, cos she does not want to get hurt anymore. she said that even if we're together, fights will occur and that will make the other party feel hurt.
there was this other guy who has been waiting for her 8 mths now and she said " look at him, hes been waiting for 8 mths and i haven accepted him."They are quite close, from what i see but she said she treats him as best buddies.
i tried to send her home and send her to school, but she kept insisting that i dun waste my time on her. when i text her, she would reply for 1 -2 times and said that shes busy and to talk later, but i know she isnt busy.
can she be convinced? shld i juz let go? or wait for her.
cos it really hurts me not to have a definite ans and ive been thinking of her every single min and it really hurts. its been making me moody, and lose my appetite.
she says its a crush on her. she tells me it would die off and i shld juz move on. she also said i chose the wrong girl to like.
i have no idea what to do now, can u please advice guys?
thanks