Hi guys, hope you can help answer some questions for me.
I had been with this guy about 15 months, it was really serious, he said that he was saving up for a ring to ask me to marry him - this was after just a couple of months of being together. He was infatuated with me and it was honestly a bit too much so I told him i wanted to take it a bit slower. He started to change after that, was moody and snappy and was colder towards me. I would ask him what was wrong and he would say that he was just stressed with work and still loved me and wanted to marry me.
Anyway towards the end he said he wasn't happy and he wanted a break, 6 weeks went by and I saw him once then i text him and asked him what was going on and he said by text that it was over and that he didn't love me enough to fight for our relationship and that he was really depressed and needed some time on his own to sort his life out. I was distraught of course and tried to phone him and he wouldn't even speak to me over the phone.
Anyway after that I had a few more texts from him over the next couple of weeks saying that you never know we could still get back together in 2013. So i text him over christmas and then he told me that i needed to move on! Talk about mixed messages!
So now i'm full of questions - i want to know if he really did want a break or if that was just another way of saying he wanted to break up with me and he was too much of a coward to do it.
i also want to know if you think that we is seeing someone else - he says he isn't but has de-friended me on facebook (after which i saw loads of pics with him and various different girls at a work christmas party) maybe that was attention seeking i don't know.
For some reason I still want him back, perhaps if i went nc eventually he would miss me! Or am I just dreaming!!