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    Selfish?

    My house recently burned downt his summer and fortunately I had insurance. Yes I am generous in ways but there's only so much you can do for a person. So with the money that came from that I bought a PS3, Wii etc, all the gizmos a guy would like. So since that wasn't enough for him he insisted on getting a TV as well. Yes, I have a lot of money to spend but would prefer not to spend it on a TV since we already have one, what's the point? Well my boyfriend seems to think just because I have the money I just should get it for him because I love him, and "I would do it for you", "What else are you going to spend it on?" Just because I have the money I should...and because he pestered me for 2 weeks I finally gave in and feel regret about caving into his demands. We've been together for 2 years plus, yes I love him but I hate the way he went about it. It was a lot of guilt trips and reverse psychology on his part and I'm still mad about it everytime I look at the stupid TV

    So am I being selfish or is he an immature little boy? thx

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    Immature little boy.

    Also spoiled, self-entitled, and manipulative.

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    He says he's just telling me his "feelings" and his "opinions" about what he would do if the positions were switched. In my mind it was his plan all along.

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    He won, he got the TV. Nothing you can do about it now I'm afraid.

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