I lost my girlfriend because I lost my mind. I got laid off in 2009 and went back to school. During that time I was in a relationship with a wonderful woman. Couldn't find a job for years. I slipped into the worst depression of my life. I had no pride, no self esteem, no identity...I didn't feel life was worth living. I was suicidal but never attempted. My girlfriend was my savior during it all but I was so bitter and angry with myself, I didn't like myself at all, that I treated her horribly. Years of that treatment towards her took it toll. She had to be the caregiver and the strong one for so long that she doesn't want to do it anymore. I just recently got a great job and realized just how bad off I had become. It's hard for me to live with myself for losing my mind during the crisis I endured. All I want is the chance now to give all the love back that I took for granted when I was going off the deep end. Can major hardships change the person going through it and can they change back to the nice person they were before things got bad?