about the anal thing

[hohol]

well i know it looks like the women from porn enjoy it(which is not the case i think) but do women really enjoy it or does it hurt too much
and if you like it how can i make my gf enjoy (because she actually asked me to do it(weird) but i refused since i was afraid of hurting her)

[Junket]

I just had anal with my girlfriend last night, she said she enjoys it because I love it.

We still use a condom, though.

[IndiReloaded]

There you are. What Fras said. Most women only do it b/c their partner likes it. Don't believe everything you rent.

[Lite]

OK, let's go over a few basics here. Most women who are having sex in porn are in severe pain, not pleasure. Most women don't really enjoy ****ing a sneaker, and from what I've been told, that's what ****ing a very large cock feels like. Now imagine having that sneaker in your ass instead.

Now, some women enjoy anal. Some women REALLY enjoy it. Many don't, some will do it to make their partner happy.

As for how to do it and not have it hurt, lots of lube, patience, fingers, and (if you're of legal age) alcohol helps. You're going to have to use your fingers to get her relaxed unless she's already used to such things ahead of time.

And it will probably go so painfully slow (unless she's a natural at it or a pain slut) that you'll lose your erection in the middle of attempting to not hurt her.

If it works out it can be rather fun in a novel way, but really it's no better (other than tighter) than vaginal sex. And w/ standard vaginal sex the cleanup is a bit easier than anal. However, she probably won't get pregnant from anal.

[hohol]

then i think it's better to refuse her proposal to have anal since i'll be the only one feeling good

[Junket]

If she's offering don't deny her, it's better you try it and give each other feedback as to whether you'll want to continue anal in the future, than not doing it at all.

If it's painful then you're doing something wrong.

[Drift Queen]

Been honest i didnt evn notice a difference with normal and anal sex......... but then again maybe that was because i was pretty out of it at the time?!"

[forest fairy]

There you are. What Fras said. Most women only do it b/c their partner likes it. Don't believe everything you rent.

I agree that one shouldn't believe porn to be a realistic portrayal of sexual preferences and practices.

Yet I am rather curious about anal.

I have often proposed it to my boyfriend and he claims to be very turn on by the idea, yet always postpones it. He is worried he might do something wrong and hurt me.

I've been told it is quite pleasurable, though, as long as one takes it easy and uses plenty of lube.

[panjee]

anal sex? im not confortable with it.. my husband told me if i like to do it..i said NO.. its kinda messy and dirty...ehehehe!!!

[Junket]

anal sex? im not confortable with it.. my husband told me if i like to do it..i said NO.. its kinda messy and dirty...ehehehe!!!

Actually, it just sounds like you know nothing about it.

[elektra]

askmen.com has a great article that I think could be quite helpful to you and your gf.

[IanReynolds]

I have had anal with women I know sleep around, I'm hoping I'm less likely to pick up an STI from them that way, less men have been in the anal.

[lesa]

I have had anal with women I know sleep around, I'm hoping I'm less likely to pick up an STI from them that way, less men have been in the anal.

It's that kind of thinking that lead some men with STIs.

[Charlie Boy II]

I have had anal with women I know sleep around, I'm hoping I'm less likely to pick up an STI from them that way, less men have been in the anal.

hahahaha!

anal makes me feel sick.

[Junket]

I have had anal with women I know sleep around, I'm hoping I'm less likely to pick up an STI from them that way, less men have been in the anal.

That's what they were all saying.