We met at a party and we made out and did some other stuff the first night (no sex). When we woke up in the morning he wanted me to come back to his apartment which I declined.
He constantly was texting me and flirting with me and asking when he could see me.
Then a few weekends later we had sex(he didn’t last long) and then he avoided seeing me but still texted me somewhat. I finally asked him that thursday to hang out and he got even less personal.
I called him out on it saying "do you always take girls' virginities and just drop them?" and he responded"Here's the truth. I dunno why what happened did but I didn't really think we would end up actually having sex. Guess I can't control that part of my life, but I have been busy lately, and school isn't getting any easier. I have only taken the virginity of 2 girls. Think what you want though."
I responded and he said "You're fine. I was embarrassed and that didn't help. let break happen (our sb starts tomorrow) and then after we can try to hang out. If you want to, but let's not get serious again, I'm not trying to play games."
He really is a nice guy and not a player type, I think what happened was he just didn’t want a relationship right now and when we had sex that scared him off because he thought sex=serious relationship(which is NOT what I equated it with). I think we did both like eachother though.
I still kind of like him and thought that we would have gotten along really well. I don’t think I should contact him cause that would make me seem clingy.
I know it sounds like it's over (and it probably is) but since the only thing that ended it was a superficial fear... do you think there's any hope he'd contact me again?