Since It looks like I won't get that girl from work, theres one other girl who I liked a lot who I might have a chance with.
I posted this back in December on another forum
'I went out to a local nightclub on Thursday Night and I'd say at my best I'm a 7.5/10 except on this night my hair was a mess so I was around a 6. I was hanging out with my mate a lot and he was friends with this girl who came, I talked to her a little in the beer garden but not a lot and she is imo a 9 or 10 hands down. Anyway I have my phone and I'm doing something and she takes it off me to put her number in and she cheerful says 'Call me sometime' and has a cute laugh afterwards and calls the number straight away on my phone so she has my number which buzzes through on her phone which I see. I was getting to a drunk stage (having a good time, not falling over and making an ass of myself) and she was pretty sober btw. This morning at around 11am I get an incoming call from her yet when I answer she hung up, that is like the stereotypical male tactic when they are nervous to talk to a woman but I'm not sure what it means. I texted back saying 'Thanks for the call, lol' just to be causal but I didn't get a reply.'
Right from the bat. Forget the rating of her, that's not important but this girl is very good looking too. The night I met her she added me on facebook at 4am, and even I know now that if I could go back in time when she called me I would have CALLED HER BACK! But this was when I was pretty much a noob, didn't even have the experience of talking to a girl like that really, only talking to a girl as friends pretty much. I tried calling her a couple of times but it kept going to voicemail so I gave up.
So it was around 4 months ago but a couple of weeks ago I texted her 'Are you going to this club tonight?' and she replied 'No not tonight, who are you going with?' Now I didn't want to seem random for texting her after all this time without anything so I told her I accidentally texted the wrong person but said how are you etc. MISTAKE #2, I regretted doing that 2 seconds after I sent it! **** I'm an idiot at times, if she was replying to me, why would I say that She didn't reply back.
Now I don't think that ****s me up though because she won't think much of it hopefully. But if I call her and I do show I want to talk to her and we have a good conversation maybe it'll work in my favour. But her phone almost always goes to voicemail but at least I know it's still with her since she texted me back. I think she works in a cafe nearby but I don't want to be a creep or anything but I reckon I'd do well if I saw her again in person before I tried to do anything but I doubt that will happen. I haven't seen her ONCE since that night and I think I live close to her as well.
I'm thinking of calling her next week, she's still single but also so the texting thing is pretty much forgotten, I look a lot different imo from back then. My hair is better, I'm fitter, gained muscle, look stronger and look healthier so hopefully that confidence can translate into this. I remember being dissapointed I couldn't get in contact with her at all, also tried talking on fb chat once I believe but fb chat is very unreliable. Think I should call her next week?
I admit I made two huge rookie mistakes both in december and now but hopefully I haven't messed up this one as well because with two girls down and no success I honestly have no one left at this time to pursue and my mind is focused on getting one of these two girls (the other girl being the one from work in the other thread but since she kept making excuses, my mind has gone off her and I don't really care about her anymore (truthfully, even I'm surprised)).