Originally Posted by
Inspired Esther
Well, first of all don't Jump to conclusions yet. Although i must say that from his complains he seems to be getting more sex somewhere else and if that's the case you trying to give him better sex won't help. Besides he's your fiance, you're not supposed to be having sex with him. When a guy gets all he wants without total commitment(marriage) there will be no reason for him to stay since he's got all he wants already he'll just move to his next prey.
My Advice: 1. No more sex at all
2. Confront him to know if he's actually still interested (don't shout or quarrel, ask him lovingly).
What century do you live in?
When I asked if he was interested in someone else he said no and why do I ask.
Well when he asked you "why do you ask?" I hope you told HIM everything you told us here in your Opening Post. If you didn't, you need help with your communication skills. If you did, what did he say?
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion