Met a guy pretty casually online. Through some common interests, not through dating sites or anything. It made me happy, 'cause it felt more natural that way.
He used to get really excited about talking to me, and finally he wanted to see me. He even pushed the date of meet-up farther away because he didn't want to make me uncomfortable, but he admitted, he really wanted to see me sooner. We were so excited!
So the date comes along, he's within decent driving distance, so meeting wasn't too hard. It was a great day! And we learned a lot about each other and laughed a lot and had lots of fun. I thought it went really, really well.
But now, it's been nearly a week and a half since that day. I don't know if I'm expecting too much, or what. But now he doesn't talk to me like he used to. He doesn't respond to me hardly. There was a time when he said that he liked to receive my text messages because it let him know he was thinking about me. But I don't get that feeling from him anymore. There's just next to no response at all.
Have I not given it enough time? Should I be expecting as much as I am? I mean, just some response would be nice. Even if he told me it didn't go over on his end the way I thought it went, I'd be okay with that. But he won't respond one way or the other.
Do I address it? Do I ignore it? Do I ignore him? I'm feeling confused, because obviously with no communication, I don't know if I did something wrong or if he's just too busy for me. And the silence kinda stings.