Hello, I am 23 years old and my girlfriend is 22. We are both college students and have been together almost a year. I am very much in love with her and always have a wonderful time. When we fight it can be bad and we have a bad argument at least once a week. We spend almost every night together and mostly ever day. Since we started dating sex has been less and less until we are having it barley once a week.. sometimes two. I do not feel satisfied with this. I feel that we are young and we need to be having more intercourse. I try to be romantic, I try to be sexy. I take my girl out all the time and get her gifts more then we have sex. Yesterday was my 23rd birthday. Instead of lying in bed all day as I had planned on doing for months on my birthday this year, I bought tickets to a Mardi Gras Ball because my girlfriend has been wanting to go to one for a long time. I spent a lot of money on tickets, tuxedo rental, and on the night in general. My girlfriend did not even have me a present, she said she still had to order me something off the internet... not even a birthday card. I highlighted how important birthday sex was for me earlier on in the day and she assured me that it was going to go down when we returned home from the ball. My night was pretty much all based on her decisions and following her around to the bars she wanted to go to after the ball. I had no problems with this as I wanted to be sweet and insure that I got lucky. When we got home she was hostile to my attempts to be intimate and shot me down. We stayed the night at her Moms and she said she was scared of getting caught... This morning her mom left for work and my girlfriend will still not give me the birthday sex i missed out on last night (like i missed out on a gift). I feel like I am more upset then i should be about this... Like I said I am very much in love with her but I am starting to worry because I am defiantly not satisfied sexually in the relationship and it starting to cause me stress. "Is she starting to be unattracted to me, am i not doing something right, is she just using me" are some of the things running through my head. I have talked to her about the problem and have started taking her out more and being more romantic like she requested and it has helped none. Sometimes i also wonder if i would be happier with someone with a higher sex drive and this scares me too because i know this is the girl i want to be with.