From what I have seen women only Lust after good looking guys, no ridiculous amount of cavemanning or confidence is going to make her attracted to you if she doesn't like your face.
This is how i think attraction really works. If she like how you look you can show your confidence or personality to her if not then the show will never begin. So confidence doesn't open the door but helps after it has been opened.
We all know we live in shallow society. Would women love Ryan Gosling if he had average face?. They love him because of his confidence right right?.
So why do not women admit that looks play a big role in attraction?. I'm not angry because women lust after good looking men(I like good looking women) but rather that they claim that personality and confidence is all that matters. If women would be more honest i would have no problem with it.
Instead men are blamed that their lack of success with women is because of low confidence, personality.
It's this simple: If you are good looking then dating is easy if not then your out of luck.