Why nude pics?

[nebulachic]

I am probably really naieve but why do guys on dating sites ask for nude pics? I already have a bikini pic... isn't that enough??? Are they collecting nude pics? ****ing off to them?? Isn't there enough free porn and nude pics on the internet?

[vashti]

They probably just want to see if you are dumb enough to do it. Don't be.

BTW - you should be hearing warning bells about someone who would ask this of you, and considering your track record with men, I'd be listening to those warning bells. Nice guys wouldn't ask this of you.

[Illusional]

wow... this isn't surprising at all.

however, it's always nice to have a naked picture to go with the personality that you are talking to right??

raverboy

[1averagejoe]

never hurts to put one of those pics on here either

just kidding

lol, i'm sorry but are you serious? they just want to see if you will do it. Now the fact that you actually thought about it and had to ask on here is what concerns me.

[Ekips]

Probably Eliot Spitzer.

But regardless.

It's been an internet phase in the past few years for people to request "nudes". "Tits or GTFO" has been the motto.

It's to exploit easily persuaded camwhores.

Feel free to leave your dignity at the door. The internet isn't kind to women.

[nebulachic]

What is GTFO? I've never given away a nude online BTW.

Well unfortunately, I was the one who caused the whole thing. He had written on his profile that he had had a shallow cheap attention-getting pic but it had been removed. I had no idea it meant it was a nude. When there was a lull in conversation I asked to see it. I thought by cheap he had meant cheesy or silly esp since he is a musician. He wrote: " Hmmmm......that's possible. Maybe you have one? It's only fair : ) Discretion is the better part of valor" I told him I had one from Halloween (thinkning by cheap he meant just silly and attention getting). My pic was of me in a Cleopatra costume with blue hair. He was reluctant to send his but I told him he had to now that I sent mine. So I got a nude of him with his dog's face in place of his. I wrote back to him: "LOL!!!!!!!!! Dear _____, Thank you for the doggified butt pic. I will cherish it all the rest of my days and have it placed in my tomb when I die, Cleopatra" He just wrote back "Hmmmmmm..." I wrote "Not the reaction you were hoping for?" and then "Seems I have offended." He wrote back "Not at all!". I wrote "Not sure if that is meant as sarcasm or not.. but assuming it is... you realize I was laughing at the fact you placed your dog's face on your own" He said he realzied that.

I didn't think I would prob hear from him ever again. The next day he sent an email and said "Hi" (and some other stuff) and "You still probably won't send anything remotely like my doggie pic, though, willya....ahhh, imagination!" I wrote "I am old-fashioned in the sense that I like the suspense to kill me and for things to unravel in real time." He wrote back "Ahhhh, yes. Suspense. I tend to manifest it. I'm a terrible tease in person and rarely follow through, but I certainly am amusing. I think. I suppose my delight in having pasted my dog's head on the pic got the better of me, though. It shant happen again!" I wrote "No worries" Again, I didn't think I would hear from him ever again. He wrote again the next day "If it was a little warmer it would be a nice day for a picnic or mud wrestling" He has not asked for a nude pic since.

[vashti]

Sending naked pictures of yourself to women on the internet is not the way normal men behave. If you choose to see him, remember I told you this, and don't be surprised if you get stuck with another whack job.

[Ellynn]

Sending naked pictures of yourself to women on the internet is not the way normal men behave. If you choose to see him, remember I told you this, and don't be surprised if you get stuck with another whack job.

This is so true. Trust me, usually the guy is a player or a nut.

[bluesummer]

Ugh, guys that ask for naked pics of you online when they haven't even met you yet are either

1) Complete slime
2) Desperate

Don't ever send these out. You don't know where they might end up.

[Tedel]

Ugh, guys that ask for naked pics of you online when they haven't even met you yet are either

1) Complete slime
2) Desperate

Don't ever send these out. You don't know where they might end up.

+1 I can't agree more.

[Gigabitch]

Neb, you need a dating attendant. You can't be trusted to pick out a good guy. Find someone to do this for you- I really don't want you ending up with some jackass like your last boyfriend.

[Gribble]

I am probably really naieve but why do guys on dating sites ask for nude pics? I already have a bikini pic... isn't that enough??? Are they collecting nude pics? ****ing off to them?? Isn't there enough free porn and nude pics on the internet?

Ron White said it best. Once you've seen one set of tits you pretty much want to see the rest.

[IndiReloaded]

LOL, are you seriously asking why they would ask?

Because they CAN, darling.

Even online, it is possible to dissuade that kind of request. Tell them you are horribly fat & ugly. Or send them the link to the beautiful 'nude' woman who turns into Linda Blair.

[Mish]

Sending naked pictures of yourself to women on the internet is not the way normal men behave. If you choose to see him, remember I told you this, and don't be surprised if you get stuck with another whack job.

Totally!

Look at the way the guy talks! He sounds like a whack job already.

"Ahhhh, yes. Suspense. I tend to manifest it. I'm a terrible tease in person and rarely follow through, but I certainly am amusing. I think. I suppose my delight in having pasted my dog's head on the pic got the better of me, though. It shant happen again!"

What imagery this paragraph brings!

I'm getting a visual of a cocaine snorting Hugh Grant talk alike with a dog mask on his head jacking off to a photo of a donkey

[thefallenheart]

becaus ethey want to se if you are stupi/slutty enough to do so?

because they want to not feel intimidated by you if you ever meet them in person. to know that you are as human as them sort of thing?

because they are sleezy/dsperate/ a nut job who is not good to meet.

because they are on the internet underage and their parents have put an internet block on it that blocks out the porn sites.