I maybe shouldn't let my boyfriend sleep over my home at the beginnig. We have been together for one year and half, we were colleagues for two years before we start. He sleep over my home almost 3, 4 and 5 nights every week. He does not come early to my home join our dinner, usually come around 9 clock or after, sometime ready a story for kids before kids sleep.
I thought we develop well, he will move in soon. But recently he told me his parents really need he look after, he is the only son, they already around 80 years old. He coudn't focus on my family. He told me he love me, my kids and I am part of his life, he satisfy current situation. All his meaning is he doesn't want move in, just want keep like this.
He rent his only place, his parents has home, plus my home. he looks like has three home. when he want be himslef he stay at his home, when he want with me, he stay with me, when he want with parents he go to his parents. I feel it's not fair to me , I need a man to rely on, my kids already 5 and 7, I am worndering any hurt for my kids if I continue live with him this way.
Or do you think he need pay me some rent if we continue live with this way?