Will it work?

[jeff4123]

I love my girlfriend, and she tells me she loves me. But, it seems as if she doesn't think I'm the best looking guy. She said I'm not ugly, but I'm "pathetically adorable". She says she loves me and this isn't a problem or anything. But, will a relationship work if your partner doesn't think you're hot/good-looking?

Thanks.

[King Zarathu]

Don't worry about it. I didn't think my girlfriend was hot but it ended up alright for a good year, then I ended it for reasons other than physical stuff.

[vashti]

Not everyone is especially good-looking, but looks are subjective and grow on you when you care about someone. Aren't you glad she doesn't care for you ONLY for your looks?

[Ellynn]

Yup.......looks aren't everything. If she didn't want to be with you....she wouldn't. So there must be somethin she really likes about you! Don't read into it too much!

[daisy]

All above are true. Good-looking or not is not so important for relationships.

[jeff4123]

Okay, thanks. I was just worried because I've become more and more attracted to her looks over time, probably because I like her so much.

[jeff4123]

I think the fact that she brought it up is what bothers me.

[xwfuro]

if she loves you for you thats all that matters you could be a ****ing beast bro al that matters is u have her as yours and you guys are in love, congrats bro.

[Ellynn]

Okay, thanks. I was just worried because I've become more and more attracted to her looks over time, probably because I like her so much.

Maybe thats the case for her. I mean....sometimes a guys personality can make an average guy......look alot better in a womans mind. As she has gotten to know you....there must be something that draws her to you. So don't change.....don't try to be someone your not. Just be yourself and appreciate what you have!