Who here still has SOME feelings for their FIRST GF/BF?

[RiceMuncher]

Just a curious question... because i see people either
a) hate their first ex to the guts
b) become best friends later
or
c) only ever had one gf/bf =]

Well, mmm for me, i guess there are times when i still do.
hahaha
Whats your stance?

[NOLA CBD]

I have no feelings whatsoever for my first ex. She cheated, which makes her scum in my book. The only ex that I still have feelings for was my 2nd girlfriend. But unfortunately, I decided long ago to cut all ties with ex's so that I can focus on future relationships. There's just too much of a chance that any future mate would be uncomfortable with it... so I always stick to my policy of cutting all ties.

[LadieNisha4u2nv]

My first bf and I are cool. I'm still cool with his mother too. We had stopped talking for the getting over each other stage, then we became good friends.

[Cain]

The only ex that I still have feelings for is my last one.

[misombra]

i have feelings of disappointment and shame for my first boyfriend. i heard he went on to be a real shitbag.

[RiceMuncher]

lawl which is why me gona turn into a preist one day...
who preys on little kids xDDDD

[lesa]

I don't really have "feelings" for my ex. I don't desire him like that anymore. I do like to keep a little contact (like once a year lol) to see how he is doing because we shared too much history to cut all ties. We did not end because of cheating, abuse, etc. We were too incompatible to do a lifetime relationship (I didn't want children..he wanted several sons, etc). We are not best friends or hate each other.

Right now he is single but maybe dating casually--I have no clue and I am in a casual relationship. If I develop a serious relationship with someone else, I think I will cut all ties. I no longer have that desire to contact him anymore so I might just do that now.

[lesa]

lawl which is why me gona turn into a preist one day...
who preys on little kids xDDDD

What!?!

Breaking up with your first bf/gf, especially serious ones or long term ones, can be the hardest.

[shh!]

I can barely remember him.

Anyway, when you look back, it's often hard to believe you ever found anything remotely appealing about your first love. I never really understand how people can't just let it go after years and years have passed, both good feelings and bad. They end up being nothing more than sweet memories (or bad ones). Intensity of any real emotion after a prolonged period of time is kind of wierd.

[Gribble]

I have no feelings whatsoever for my first girlfriend.

[Cain]

I have no feelings whatsoever for my first girlfriend.

You don't have any feelings at all.

[Kromat]

I have yet to find my first, so I have none at the moment.

I'm trying to find someone, but the chances aren't received.
I'd like to find someone that likes dancing just as much as me, or wants to try it, but most of
these girls just head for a particular and are probably disappointed in the end.

P.S. I'll find someone that would love to do Latin Dancing with me, and we'll have lots of fun.

[Gribble]

You don't have any feelings at all.

And you have more feelings than a whiny little girl. Want to split 'em?

[kitty001]

No..no feelings left. I remember once feeling strongly for him, but that isnt the case anymore. And frankly, I cant really understand why I ever did =P

[Azpackrat85]

I don't have any feelings for my first girlfriend. It was so long ago and I am in a totally different relationship now.