Originally Posted by
Beth_84
Wow OK Wakeup, I have come upon a few of your post this evening and although your advice is, I hope, well meaning I have the feeling you are harbouring a lot of rage.
In the 9 months + that we have know each other we have slept together 3 times, the rest of the time we just talk and talk about everything and anything, I can safely say the things we have spoken about are not the sort of things you discuss with someone you are just sleeping with. He is a very private person. Yes there is lust between us, it's called a physical attraction, without which intimate relationships would be very difficult.
Your comments are highly personal and rude to the point of being Unnecessary , may I suggest that you deal with your own issues, anger for example, before dishing out advice to others.
I don't see any rage in Wakeup's post really. I mean, maybe she's being straight to the point here and not wanting to spare your feelings..and that's how it should work at all times. You may not be having sex with this guy regularly but if you think he cares that much about you (which he has shown over and over that he really doesn't) you are in for a rude awakening. See, a lot of people come on here wanting to hear certain things like "oh yes he's definitely in love with you".."keep being with him"..and so if they get anything else they get offended.
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