I've been reading about how people who show off and try to impress others are actually "insecure deep down" and I want to get this part of my life handled if thats really true. I'm 18 and my whole life I've loved showing off (but not to the point where it annoys the hell out of everyone) and I love the idea of "showing people up when they have all doubt against you," I guess it somewhat fuels any motivation I may have. Also things like wearing "hype" clothing cause it makes me feel good and to "turn heads" and whatnot are also things I like to do which relates to showing off. I've really been trying to work on being better with girls, and if showing off really indicates insecurity and neediness, I'm sure they can detect that pretty easy and I'd like to get rid of it but im not sure exactly how I'm supposed to work on this area so any help would be appreciated.
oh, and please dont say "JUST STOP," like I haven't heard that before lol....