Hey guys, a month ago i met this really really great girl at a local university event. Since then we have been talking a lot, and meeting each other for lunch on campus almost every day. Our relationship has really developed, and on saturday night we went out and had some fun. Now, this is the problem, on saturday when we were out, she kind of passed by the fact that she has been talking to this other guy which she met a few months back. This guy is the son of a family friend of theirs, and when i tried to get more information out of her, she really didnt seem to want to talk about it. She was very very hesitant to call this guy her boyfriend, but when i asked if they can date other people she said, i dont know, id be mad if he did. This was obviously very hurtful, but the worst part is, where the hell does it leave me? I mean we have really gotten close, we talk just about every day, and our relationship has developed almost to the point of boyfriend and girlfriend, she even calls me for help with directions and stuff now. What do i do about this?? If i bring it up, and say listen i want to be with you, officially, whats your thoughts? im afraid that she will say nothing can happen, im with this other guy, and everything ive worked for will be wasted. Should i stick it out, and hope this "other guy" just dissolves or something? I mean all my friends (including girls) say that its pretty obvious this girl had an interest in me. In fact she even met my family last week. Oh man, im sorry for the long e-mail, this has just been very stressing, i hope you guys can help out, thanks a lot.