I met a man through my work who i instantly had a connection with the first time we met, he felt it too. After the initial meeting we eventually met face to face for a dinner which he asked me out for. We were talking and he told me is Separated with 2 kids, one is 2 yrs old and the other is 6yrs old, that didn't bother me as he told me they were separated. 3 weeks after starting to date this man, i eventually found out that he in fact broke up with his wife and left her and his kids for me and moved out of the family home. I was not aware of this as he told me they were separated before we even met. I fell in love with him and he was deeply in love with me too. For 6 months we would see each other constantly and it felt so real, he would talk so negatively about his wife that she treated him so badly and he wished i was the mother of his kids. I would always say to him, you should go and spend time with your kids and do it regularly, but he didn't want to as his wife became abusive towards him and he didn't want the kids to see it so he kept his distance from the. 6 months down the track, he decides to visit his kids and then he started to feel guilty for leaving his kids as apparently his 6yr old daughter is struggling without him. He is now staying back at the old house with his wife and kids, but he says its because his kids need him and overtime he leaves his daughter feels upset. I am so in love with this man and i know he loves me, he did leave his wife and lived away from her for 6 months but he is back there for the kids sake... I am so confused, can someone please help me with what i should do?
Thank you