I'm his longest relationship

[ruth]

Hi,
I'm going to try and make this short and sweet. I met a a guy 7 months ago, we have a great relationship, but i recently found out im his longest relationship...he's 29, im 24. Should i be worried about this? Should i fear he's a committment phobic? It seems that he was very dedicated to his studies in his past, and he's not quite successful, need I worry about the fact that a 29 year old has only ever had a 6 month relationship?

If the answer is no...then how do i keep things in going well any ideas or help would be much appreciated

thanks!!!

[misombra]

i would need more info about him. does he have a job? has he had it for long?

[mini696]

I

Dont

Know

[jaye]

Hi,
I'm going to try and make this short and sweet. I met a a guy 7 months ago, we have a great relationship, but i recently found out im his longest relationship...he's 29, im 24. Should i be worried about this? Should i fear he's a committment phobic? It seems that he was very dedicated to his studies in his past, and he's not quite successful, need I worry about the fact that a 29 year old has only ever had a 6 month relationship?

If the answer is no...then how do i keep things in going well any ideas or help would be much appreciated

thanks!!!

he is a man for apples sake, leave it alone. don't need to worry about it. its not end of the world. or something like it.................
Just chill out girrrrllllllll

[Junsui]

What Sombra said.

[Tone]

Yeah give us more info, have you asked him why his longest relationship has only been 6 months?

[TAVS]

That's pretty surprising but I dont know if I would let it worry me. Do you know if he dates a lot? I mean regardless of age, if someone's only dated 5 women, then the odds aren't so bad he hasn't beat 6 months.

[Tone]

Yeah maybe this is just OV in a few years ;D

[BFTrick]

i wouldnt worry about it. dont judge him by his past

[Debunkt]

Why the hell would you worry about being someone's longest relationship?!?! ITS A GOOD THING! It means he has never met anyone that he's wanted to be with more than you. Is that really a hard thing to understand?

[Junsui]

Sometimes it's not a good thing though. It could be a sign that he can't commit to anything. That may not be the case for her.

[Rosebud]

If he has a commitment problem, I wouldn't imagine he would be trying to date at all, and still be with her if this is his longest relationship. I wouldn't worry about it, but I would still try and find out what went wrong before just in case. I would imagine if he was very dedicated to school the reason may be because he didn't have enough time to hold onto a relationship, and he may have this time now!

[Junsui]

I would agree with you Rosebud if he was like 22-25. School can take up your time. Maybe he just finished school later.

[Rosebud]

That could be the case. I know someone who's that age still going to school and they don't have time for anyone including themselves.

[Ratfish256]

It could be that he hasnt had a chance to be in a relationship longer than 6 months because he was dumped.