There's this girl I liked in school. She gave me allot of love signs to me thorughout the year. We talked a couple of times but I was scared to make my move.
Now the year is almost over and exams are coming soon. Is it too late to make my move and start a relationship? Should I wait next year?
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11-06-09, 05:29 AM #1
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Is it too late?
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11-06-09, 05:33 AM #2
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Right, because waiting has worked so well for you so far.
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11-06-09, 05:47 AM #3
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Yes.. I know it's a dumb question. I don't want her to know that I lost interest in her so I want to tell her how I feel as soon as possible. What is the best approach?
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11-06-09, 05:48 AM #4
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You don't want her to know that you have lost interest in her or you don't want her to think that you have lost interest in her?
Originally Posted by xZeRo
Big difference there. Which one is it?[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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11-06-09, 06:19 AM #5
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where have you been Peter?
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11-06-09, 06:53 AM #7
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I don't want her to "think" that I lost interest. Originally Posted by Yggdrasil
Anyway.. how do I show my true feelings to her?
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11-06-09, 06:58 AM #8
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Does she live in the same town?
Is she single?[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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11-06-09, 07:03 AM #9
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What do you mean by your "true feelings?" You hardly even know this girl. You're not planning on declaring your deep and abiding love, are you? Because you cannot possibly have any, and she knows that; what you have is infatuation, and that is not a sexy thing to reveal. Tell her the truth: that she intrigues you (etc.) and you very much want to know her better. Can she suggest a way the two of you could do that? Originally Posted by xZeRo
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11-06-09, 07:28 AM #10
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What I mean is that I tell her a compliment like "you have the prettiest eyes"
Should I tell her that after I tell her that she intrigues me?
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11-06-09, 07:33 AM #11
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Take the plunge..life is short.
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11-06-09, 08:30 AM #12
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Just ask her if she feels like hanging out with you. Go with the flow. Originally Posted by xZeRo
I have the best experiences by just casualy opening and slowly getting her interest.
Something like: Hi.. That skirt sure looks good on you, or: Sure is hot today eh?
If she's interested in talking she'll reply and you can go from there.
Ask her a few open ended questions such as: How are your studies going? or: What kind of music do you like?
Those are simple ways to get a bit deeper into her interests. If you have common interests you can talk about those.Last edited by Yggdrasil; 11-06-09 at 08:39 AM. Reason: hit submit before finishing post
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11-06-09, 08:31 AM #13
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Don't bother with the compliment. Telling her she has pretty eyes isn't going to make her want to go out with you if she isn't interested already. What it will do is show her that you're willing to debase yourself before her at no cost to herself. Besides which, if she does have gorgeous eyes, then you're the 11th person to tell her that today. Distinguish yourself by actually paying attention to her. Wait until she does something actually, honestly admirable in your presence and then praise her for that. Originally Posted by xZeRo
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11-06-09, 08:42 AM #14
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Look.. If you havent read my previous thread i'll show it to u:
"In the beggining of my second semester of grade 10 there was this girl I liked. I was surprized when the teacher put us right beside each other in the seating plan. After a few months she started giving me love "signals." The first signal came when I saw her looking at me with my pheripheral vision when we were doing a quiz. The next signal came when she bumped me gently in a slick way when there was a lesson on valentine's day. She also gives me that "look" with a smile everytime I walk by her. I think the teacher knew what was going on and then changed the seating plan. However, I still see her staring at me occasionaly"
I know that she likes me but I don't think she thinks I like her.
What do you mean honesly admirable?
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11-06-09, 08:47 AM #15
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That changes things a little bit. Originally Posted by xZeRo
You know? Sorry, you're not a mindreader. You assume. Or you wishfully think.
You don't know till she tells you.
In that case, I simply would ask her. If she says no then you know enough. If she says yes, then you can ask what about her facebook entry?[SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
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