I want some opinions here...
I was talking with a friend yesterday who has been strung along by a women for the past 3yrs. He loves this woman...she has become like an addiction to him b/c she is so hot and cold. She uses him and he can't seem to let her go. She tells him she doesn't know what she wants. I thought about this all night...people say this all the time. They are "confused" they "don't' know what they want"...etc...so we string people along that we KNOW are in love with us. It's wrong and of weak character in my opinion to use people like this.
My questions is...Do you think people can really be confused like this and not know what they want? Or are they just not being honest with themselves? Are they too chicken to let go of their "back-ups"?