End of a Marriage
So a few have seen and posted on my post regarding what was going on with my wife. We have split, and being the self-sacrificing fool I am, I more or less tried to boil out all the blame to end up on me. And to make sure she hated me so she never felt she made a mistake leaving me.
Just the type of individual I am. I've heard something about possibly needing cognitive therapy or the likes but that sounds very expansive and non-informative.
I want to get an idea of how I am suppose to move on. I gave this relationship 101% and that meant I was dedicated to it in every sense of form. I did not hold back on how I was as a person, or my personality flaws. And she had accepted them completely at the time of. As some have mentioned and many individuals not involved, it was most likely her lack of maturity and non-desire for a long term relationship at this stage in her life that ended things.
But how do I move on? I went above and beyond with this girl. I gave her things I only wanted to do with the girl of my life. I've had relationships before, but I never went to this extent, and devoted this much. Because they never got to such an important level to me.
So how does a guy who gave parts of himself, things he reserved only for his wife. . . move on?
"We should live every moment of life on the edge of our seats, because only then do we get to experience all that life has to offer. Live life to the fullest, and die without regrets."