Okay, so there's a guy that I recently met and at the beginning I told him that I wanted to be friends, because I just got out of a serious relationship. He said he respected that, but also told me he had strong feelings for me (a very short time after we met). We hung out consistently (and still do) and he is always first to contact me, at any time of the day. However, this guy is very attractive with an accent and A LOT of female friends. Well, over the time we've known each other I've noticed myself developing feelings for him. I told him about it, and he seemed excited. I confronted him about my suspicions, and I told him that if he's playing games, he needs a different player 2 because I do not do that. He told me he wasn't playing games, that if he just wanted to get laid then he could go to a club and get a girl a drink and dance with her. I'm not sure if I should believe what he says, simply because I know he has a lot of friends who are girls, and I've seen him post some skeevy comments on near-nude pictures of girls on facebook. I didn't keep my word, though, and did play one small game with him: I deleted him on facebook. He noticed, and called me asking why? Was I okay? What's going on? Was I trying to tell him something? He seemed genuinely concerned, but I'm not sure if I can believe it.
So what do you think, guys? Is he a player? Or are my insecurities and paranoia from my last relationship biting me in the ass?