A month ago, I posted a thread I am 63 he is 42. Briefly after 3 years of him flirting with me, he finally asked me to be his girlfriend (he thought I was just 10 yrs older, his guess). We are both married, we had a strong attraction, he made all the running, calling, txting, but kept letting me down. We met, we kissed and started to get to know each other, he made wild promises, of us being together in different countries. There was a misunderstanding over a business issue, we feel out as I left the country 4 weeks ago. We both live part of the time in a country where this kind of thing would be the ruin of both our good names. I was in this country for 2 weeks at beg of Sept when all this happened. I left mid Sept, no contact for 2 weeks almost, then we spoke a few times over the last two weeks. He was saying he was looking forward to me returning. He asked me to call him and txt him, I said are you sure you want to hear from me, he said yes of course.
I have been back here for 2 days, Yesterday, I sent a simple txt message saying good afternoon, no reply. I called the number it said not available try later. Today I found out he was moving his office to another town, but will continue to live in this town. Why oh why didn't he tell me straight, when I asked him. Why this stupid game, I feel hurt all the more that he has behaved like this. He spent 3 yrs priming me, pursuing me. I know he isn't happily married. He said by knowing me I would save his marriage. I didn't want anything from him, he made me laugh, he made me feel alive, I wanted him so much. I couldn't believe that he had spent 3 yrs. At the beginning when I was reticent, I said I'm not desperate because I'm older you know. He said look if I wanted a quick f..... I wouldn't be asking you. I want more, I want you, I love everything about you, you have an aura, I can't stay away from you. Which was true, he was always around me and trying to be.
I want to see him or speak to him one last time to ask him, why all this secrecy about his movements, if it's over it's over, I won't chase anybody, why keep telling me to call and txt him, when I ask if he is sure he wants me to, he says yes. Why Why Why! Can somebody out there please tell me. Now I am back to where I was a month ago, so broken.