Hello all,
From looking at my past relationships, I've noticed that there's a pattern. Usually, when I get into a relationship with someone that I really like, things go extremely well for the first 2-3 months and everything is great. However, after that 2-3 month mark, I usually get this really bad gut feeling at some point and after that, me and the person I'm dating usually start to grow progressively more distant until we inevitably break up. This is happening right now in my current relationship. Things were great for the first 3 months but then, one day I got the gut feeling and after that, things started to go downhill. At this point, me and my girlfriend barely talk and it looks like a breakup is coming soon. I hope I'm wrong but I think the writing is on the wall. My hypothesis is that I'm so happy in the beginning of a relationship that I pull the person too close and then they get sick of me after a few months and want me out of their life. I've tried distancing myself in the past, though, and that doesn't seem to have helped. Does anyone have any insight on what my problem might be?