Originally Posted by
michelle18_
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. A year into the relationship, I broke up with him because I felt he didnt really care about the relationship anymore. There was another guy involved that I thought could give me the things that he couldnt but 3 weeks later I realized that I had made the wrong decision. We got back together and were together for another 9 months and then he broke up with me. We were broken up for another 6 months and this time was very horrible and torturing for me. We have been back together for a month now and we have reached a point that I am not sure we can come back up from. He doesnt understand why I am not fed up with the way he has treated me these last 6 months. He says that I must have a mental issue because no one person can deal with so much and still want to keep the relationship. He says that he loves me but not like he loved me before I broke up with him. He says that he doesnt know if he'll ever love that way again and he doesnt want to hurt me. He has left the decision of fighting for the relationship or ending up to me but i'm not sure what the smart thing would be to do. There are many other factors that play into the relationship and our emotions but it would take too long to explain all of that. Can anyone help me out with this one?
Thank you