I have oily skin on my face and I hate it. I can wash my face with soap and water every 2 hours, and that just barely keeps up with it. I shower every day and am a very clean person. If I workout, I shower again. It's just the way my skin is.
That's one thing I wish I could change about me. But I have other good things that make up for that.
I have a long time interest in psychology, specializing in relationship dynamics for 30 years.
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