I have been dating this woman for 2 years a divorcee with 3 kids. it started out casual then serious. she moved to be closer to her family i paid all the expenses plus new furniture for the house her car broke down so shes using my extra one. I then got transferred and was able to come home every other weekend, and my last night home she got drunk (bad) told me she slept with someone else.. the next day she did not remember.. her first excuse was my ex not cheating. the next was i gained to much weight (8 lbs in 2 years).. a month has gone by i still think of her she called and wanted to see me so i drove the 200 miles to get there and she tells me she has found someone else and has it bad... hes coming by after work at 8... i told her i didnt drive 200 miles to turn around and go home. how do i get her off my mind and do i go back and take the furniture i paid for?