I first had trust issues after finding numerous text messages from my boyfriend to about 2-3 online female friends. I don't know them that well, but I do know that they used to play the same game together and one of them is engaged. The text messages said things like "I miss you a lot" and "hey there sexy" but some went into things about our relationship.
This bothered me a lot & ever since then, I could never fully trust him. I felt like I had to check his email & texts all the time to make sure he doesn't do anything, but he has a history of deleting things I wouldn't want to see ..
So my question is whether what he calls "playful" flirting normal for guys in relationships .. or is this indicative of something I should really be worried about? To my knowledge, he has stopped doing this but I still worry about it.