Usually when I am on my down time I dress pretty casually. In the summer I wear shorts and a T shirt, in the winter jeans and a sweater. I keep things covered up because I have sensitive skin (burst into flames in the summer, get dry skin in the winter). A few guy friends tell me I never attract men because I am not dressing for other men - I'm not showing cleavage or things that accentuate my butt. I have a decent body, not the best but who's happy completely with themselves? I have been told I have a pretty face. But I don't attract men. I don't wear make up most of the time, I am covered up.
How important is it to dress like you are "looking"? As in I should wear a top that shows off my breasts, make up, etc. And if I do dress like this, some guy wants my phone number, etc. What's to say that he will even return a phone call or a text? I feel like I can't win anymore in the relationship department, you're damned if you do damned if you don't.