Ok so there is this girl I have been dating on and off for over 3 years(we are both 19 btw). But we have never had a true boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship because she has never had time. She took college courses during high school and she worked full time. But now her life is less hectic and we are trying to settle down. The problem is that she wants to take things slow. It just makes me a little insecure, that's all. We have so much fun together and we can talk for hours without getting bored. Also, she loves my family and always talks about our futre plans together. And during the last three years, I have been the only guy she has dated even when we weren't together. I just don't understand why she wants to take things so slow. Should I ask her about it? The truth is that I love her with all my heart and would do anything to make her happy. I just don't want to lose her. Any advice is appreciated.