Car Modification

[sparkle_jello]

My husband likes doing things to cars, and he is getting a little tired of doing things to his own and wants to do things to mine. The problem is, I used to let him with my other car, but this is my first super nice car, and I don't want anyone but a dealer touching it.
He really has an itch, and to be truthful he's good at what he does. When in high school many years back he actually had a business fabricating custom car parts.
Also, he pays for my car. It was a gift from him, but I don't feel this should factor into the decision.
Anyways, he isn't being mean about it or anything, but I don't want to be a bitch.

[justcheckin]

I mean if its his car.... I wouldn't start to take possession over it (not letting him because you don't want it). just be like I like the car teh way it is... but if you reallllyyyyy want to...

[sparkle_jello]

It's my car. In all honesty there are a few things I think would be cool, I just don't want him to take over my car, and I'm worried that anything he does may ruin the warrantee, even if he doesn't hurt the car. I also wouldn't mind if it was just cosmetic, like if he wanted attractive 5 point harness I would be happy; however, he does stuff with engines and tires and brakes, I'm nervous something will break.

[justcheckin]

well I mean you have talked about it? does he know that? Just tell him your concerned and get him to reassure your safety or something.

[sparkle_jello]

He doesn't push me, but he is always looking up stuff he can do and makes it well known about his desires to modify. I think he feels hurt that I don't completely trust him not to hurt my car.

[justcheckin]

well I guess I would too a little, you are basically telling him that you dont trust his abilities.