Hopefully an easyanswer to a simple??? question.....
Problem.....
The first time we made love went smoothly.... awesome.... That same night we did it once again..... and once more after that. The second and third times..... well.... I had trouble "getting it up" and "keeping it up". I got the impression she was disappointed (she came 5 times that night mind you) but she was disappointed that i couldn't finish off. Next time was a week later. This time i had no trouble getting hard during foreplay, but when it came to sex, it gradually deflated. She came twice but i was left "unfinished" and once again she was disappointed. We talked about it briefly and i said i didnt know what was wrong... She is a gorgeous girl with a stunning figure and i have no trouble when im "alone". I'm almost very sure she isnt the problem. She seems to think she is and keeps asking me to tell her what to do or if there is anything she can do.... I love her for asking.... I know she wants to pleasure me and I love her so much for that, but I dont know what to tell her when she asks....
This seems to be the pattern lately....
We tried again today.... she caught me by surprise and whispered in my ear.... needless to say....BOINGGGGG!
..... What can i say, i love sponteneity(sp?)
But once again, she had a wonderful time, but no go for me.
Im still very happy that i can pleasure her like that, but i get the feeling that it is starting to snowball on my side of things and its starting to get to me now.......
Any suggestions/comments?