Originally Posted by
tamy123
Hi there,
So me and my bf had been dating for 4 years. We started dating in grade 10. Then in grade 11, I came to another country to study. Then, a year later, my bf also came to the same country, however, he lived 2 hours away from me. I am living with my aunt and uncle family so it was not easy to see him frequently. So technically, we had been in a long distance relationship for 3 years. Then a year later, thing just got really quiet. I didn't laugh at his jokes anymore, I stop talking to him about anything. It was really dull. Then, one night, me and my best male friend went out for a drink and we started talking. He said that he had a crush on me and wish I didn't have a bf at that time. At that time, I just wanted to escape out of that quiet relationship that I was having with my bf. So Ive decided to break up with him and be with my friend. I know it was stupid of me .... It happened that me and my friend were not really a fit, we had different life style. We decided to break up. Meanwhile, I started realizing that I really love my ex bf. After half a year, we got back together again. His parents now know that we got back together and they didn't like it. I know I was acting really fast without thinking but I really want to fix this. I don't know what to do. I don't want my bf to argue with his parents or cause him any stress about this. Im not sure if we should break up or not ...
Any advice would be appreciated ... and sorry for the long post
You already stressed him out once by leaving him for your bloody friend. Now you're wondering if you should leave him so he's not stressed?
Put your bf on, I'd like to have a nice motherly chat with him.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion