Hi, I got in touch with an old love, we professed to still have feelings for each other. I dumped him due to family circumstances. We live in different countries. We chat on facebook only... he won't phone, skype, come to visit or have me visit him. he is not working.
For 5 months now he has disappeared and re-enterd my life, ... just stops texting for weeks and then talks again. I do "no contact" when he does this.... it appears to be when I put pressure on about visiting or telling him I want more out of life than he can give me.
He says I was the love of his life and he has messed all his relationships up since, we sext ( mainly me !) but talk about books, movies etc. He does not ask about my family and tells me the bare minimum about his.. and only when I ask. He does tell me what he does each day. When I asl about work.. he avoids the convo.
so.. am i wasting my time here.. is it all bullshit he's feeding me ? Am I just an ego trip ? To pick him up when he's feeling down ???AND next time he is in touch... what do I say ??? Should I make him wait weeks for a reply ???