Should I end it or mend it?

[jlynnr]

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[MerryH]

I'm not sure how you could ever fully trust him again, and that doesn't make for a great relationship. I don't blame you for not being able to get over what happened, it was a pretty big betrayal. It's probably in your best interest to end it.

[smackie9]

Tell him it's over. The guy is a dirty dog that does nasty tricks and only cares about himself. He will cheat on you too eventually, so tell him to stay in his own country and stay far far away from you.

[Boisdevie]

He is about 3000 miles away from you - find somebody closer to home

[Charisma]

just dump him. He wasn't honest to you, or to his wife. Do you really think he will change???

p.s. I'd be creeped out by a necklace tha was his wife's. I'd try to send it back. But I dunno what you've done with it.

[Ryan Heitzman]

Long distance, once again, is useless I think.

[sweetkissesforu]

He's a con artist they say anything to get what they want sorry for the honesty but i may save you some heartache

[sweetkissesforu]

Tell him it's over. The guy is a dirty dog that does nasty tricks and only cares about himself. He will cheat on you too eventually, so tell him to stay in his own country and stay far far away from you.

Con man liar they have a web site full of stories like this filthy liars

[jlynnr]

just dump him. He wasn't honest to you, or to his wife. Do you really think he will change???

p.s. I'd be creeped out by a necklace tha was his wife's. I'd try to send it back. But I dunno what you've done with it.

I offered to send it back to his wife, but she told me to keep it.

Thank you everyone for your replies.

[Olenjka10]

He is just using you. Once he gets job here its gonna get worse. You have to turn things around if you want to be in control. Or dump him, if you want to be safe.