How did you meet this guy? He sounds like he's married or in some other romantic relationship. Have you ever been to his house?
When I asked why this was happening, he told me that there are some things that he needs to work on that he didnt think would get in the way, but are.. and he has to work on them before he can dive off too deep into this relationship. he said it was personal, and something that he is not strong in that department. I didnt aske for any information about it, because I dont need to know, if its that important to him. He told me that He doesnt know how long this break is, it would be untill he got this issue settled...
He only sees you on the weekends.. how much "space" does he need?
Personally if a guy told me that after only two months of dating I'd tell him goodbye and then work on getting over my disappointment that an actual relationship didn't form. If he called me when he got through this "personal" thing and I was still single I'd evaluate whether I'd take a chance on him again or not, then.
You are putting way too much into someone you've only seen on weekends for a two month period. That's someone you've been in the same company with 8 times. Not worth the "heart ache" you're conjuring up for yourself and focusing on when you should be doing your best to forget him all together. 8 times (16 if you want to count the weekends as two days) you've seen him and he wants "space" and he won't tell you why. Thats a huge red flag that I think you'd be foolish to ignore.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion