Hey!
I'm going to write you my story in short and i would really like to get some help and opinions
So this ex bf of mine..we have been together for 3years, he was my first love and i was his. We had a lot of great times and we've been through some bad as well. We broke up 2years ago, he ended it and i don't blame him. At that time I was going through something really bad and I completely changed, I was really depressed and he gave up.
In those two years we have been apart, we saw each other occasionally but every time I had some expectations so we decided it was better to stop. About 6 months ago I met this great guy that I really like. I've never liked anyone else this much and about a month ago, we became (he said it) friends with benefits. He said that he isn't ready for a serious relationship but in my opinion he is acting way more "friendly" than he should in that kind of relationship. He's talking about moving in together, he writes that he misses me..But also on the other hand, I have this feeling that he's only talking and wouldn't do anything if he really had a chance. I believe that if a guy really likes a girl, he would want to be with her, not just as a friend with benefits.
To end this story, about two weeks ago, my ex called me, saying how sorry he was that he left and that he never forgave himself, if he had another chance, he'd never mess it up and that he loves me. I believe him, I really do. So the problem is that I don't know if he's going to give up again after some time, like he has done before. I mean I am not in the same place that I was back then, but I need to know that I can trust him to be with me..
I don't know what to do!!!!I have an ex boyfriend who would do just about anything to get me back and to prove me that he loves me.. But I can't just let him back and trust him again. And I have this guy who I like, I can imagine being with him for the rest of my life (we have a lot of things in common, same opinions) but I don't think he feels the same..
What should I do???