what do you think of mens who put thier friend as priority?

[darksoul]

I'm kinda frustrated with my Bf as he always help out his best friend into anything he request. makes me wonder if they are gay or something. Any solution to this?

[Charlie Boy II]

Guys often sensibly put their friends first because friends are generally a permanent fixture. Girlfriends are usually temporary.

[cake85]

I really wouldn't worry about it...guys have this sense of solidarity when it comes to their best friends..is like they are brothers or something like that. My older brother is the same way with his best friend (they are both married)..it's just we, women, tend to think that guys are always though and uncapable of being sensitive...but the truth is they are, they just tend to hide it .

[darksoul]

hmm, but gf is the person whom you will spend yr life with, in future. What if both of us are married and his best fren is interrupting all the way?

[CAM]

If a guy is married but putting his friends as a priority...that's a bit immature.

[Charlie Boy II]

yeah but they're not married.

[darksoul]

agree, immature. Feel like revenging. hate it when his fren is interrupting our life.

[Charlie Boy II]

Did you listen to what I said!? A best friend is a best friend for life. Girls come and go. If he ditches his best friend now, where's that going to leave him when you two part ways.

[darksoul]

Yeag, yr a guy. that's what you think. it aint same for gals ok, man?

[Charlie Boy II]

it's right. I see girls ditch their friends all the time when they get into a relationship, then when it ends they're left with no friends.

[Lipp]

Just another example of asking for advice, hearing what wants to be heard and refuting anything else.

[qwertz]

it's right. I see girls ditch their friends all the time when they get into a relationship, then when it ends they're left with no friends.

Its true, lots of girls do this. I guess lots of them think that they are with 'the one' and will only ever need their OH.
Friends should always come before gf/bf, afterall, they are the ones gonna be picking up the pieces when you split up

[Mish]

Let's fighting love

[tooxshort]

I'm married and I still go out on a limb for my best friends. Not saying that I ditch my wife or anything, but she completely understands ... They were there before her and she knows we have a history ... And they'd do the same for me.

The last thing you want is to be left without a backup plan. It's like pursuing an acting career without a degree.

[Gribble]

My friends have always come first. I've known several of them for a decade or more. They will always be there. Women come and go. My friends don't judge me. They don't make demands of me. When we're together we have fun. We enjoy each other's company. I never have to worry that I'll say something or do something wrong. I don't have to worry that they'll give me the cold shoulder or bitch me out for something I didn't even know I did.