cuddling

[annoyed23]

men - what is your thought on cuddling/spooning/any type of physical contact that isnt sexual.

[Lite]

I'm fine with it, as long as I'm not choking on the woman's hair.

[annoyed23]

Do you initiate...or do you do it cuz she wants to cuddle?

[Lite]

Do you initiate...or do you do it cuz she wants to cuddle?

Some of both. Depends upon my mood, her mood, and what's going on. We've always been a rather affectionate couple though.

[annoyed23]

so you do find it beneficial emotionally somehow?

[Lite]

so you do find it beneficial emotionally somehow?

I feel a general level of comfort when she is near me. So cuddling is generally a good way to accomplish such. She and I go out of our way to arrange our life so that we can spend a lot of time close to each other. I even drive her to work every morning just so we'll have an extra 20 minutes together each day.

[annoyed23]

awww. thats so cute! my man goes through phases...sometimes hes super cuddly, and sometimes hes not. I dont know how to gage this...is this because he feels closer to me at times? or is it because hes realizing he needs to be closer to me? or what? im just curious.

[Lite]

awww. thats so cute! my man goes through phases...sometimes hes super cuddly, and sometimes hes not. I dont know how to gage this...is this because he feels closer to me at times? or is it because hes realizing he needs to be closer to me? or what? im just curious.

Could be any number of things. He might be preoccupied with dealing with stress, he might be tired, he might be distracted, who knows. You'd have to ask him.

[annoyed23]

I know he does it sometimes in order to get sex. lol

[richeanne]

it's somethin women want after tiresome sex. seriously^^

[Only-virgins]

I like it. Why not. THAT'S RIGHT..OV likes to cuddle...go have a ball people.

[Junket]

I particularly like to cuddle when I want sex.

[Lite]

I like it. Why not. THAT'S RIGHT..OV likes to cuddle...go have a ball people.

Yeah, but you only like me to hold you after you come come to early and have me pet your hair while whispering, "There there, it's alright, it happens to all men at some point."

[Tashi]

lol >.< cuddling is nice xD and if the hair is in the way, move it >.<

not to get sex though... just... because I like it xD besides, it is easier to sleep when cuddling, it makes you feel more safe :3

[Only-virgins]

Yeah, but you only like me to hold you after you come come to early and have me pet your hair while whispering, "There there, it's alright, it happens to all men at some point."

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