Originally Posted by
xxazurexx
I've been a dumper in an instance where he got chance after chance to change and he didn't change. I ended it and it hurt to end it. I was probably hurting way more than he was, even though he was the dumped. It depends on circumstances and why/what led to the dumping.
I've been there.
For me, the level of hurt is not contigent on who did the 'dumping' but on the character, self-esteem and emotional character of the individual. Some have a 'bleeding heart' while others move on quickly not matter if they are dumped or do the dumping.
Last edited by SealedWithAKISS; 27-01-11 at 01:25 AM.
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